Last night was hectic with capital H!!! Cooked up a storm – over-peppered pasta, overmushroomed-soup n oversugared-trifle!! Hahaha, nothing much… just a few friends gathering up at my flat for a post-wedding bachelorette party get-together farewell dinner. A what?? Yup, yup…sad news indeed…I’m leaving KL, dude!! For good. After 6 years of a love-hate relationship with the traffic-jams, the jerebus, the shopping sprees, the girlie night sleepovers, I finally said enough of this madness, pack my things and head off to….uhmm….Penang? What???? There’s a more massive stockpile of cars there than in KLCC’s parking lots during PCfair…and don’t even begin on the mat rempit!! Hahaha, seriously though, I’m starting my new post at Georgetown on 15th …we’ve already rented a flat out in Bayan Lepas… all excited to start a new life there with hubby….^_^
Gonna miss KL though *sniff sniff*. Gonna miss all friendz huhuhu,…esp Kak Wani and Jepp (whom I used to tail around when they went on a date…mmg kaki nyibuk!!~)…gonna miss Lieya…it sure does feel weird for leaving without being able to see her and saying good bye….I know I’m going to miss her the most…miss Salizah, miss Fati..miss Flet Ikan (dan2 jek letak flet ikan sbelah nama fati kekeke..), miss sate Samuri, miss tandoori chicken Jascafe, miss Shell tmpt isi minyak, miss yongtaufu paso mlm serdang, miss nasik lemak makcik dpn surau, miss pisang goreng makcik resdong, miss siakapstim kt bangi (ok, is it me or does it sounds like I’ll miss FOOD more than human?). No more crazy ransacking thru discount bins at Sogo n MidValley during Y.E.S…no more pinjam2 baju during emergency sleepover……No more sesi makan Nandos tak hingat………
Anyway 2 weeks post wedding - frenz still come around and ask me the same question “oit, cane rasa….dah kawen?”. Hmmm…it’s kinda hard to put it in words…really….And I don’t wanna go on gushing bout how I love my hubbie to everyone who’ll listen (I’ll reserve that to a few unfortunate people nyeh3). I think it’s important to put things into perspective even before you got married. Being married is not just having his name or being able to tick ‘married’ instead of ‘single’ in your tax form. For Muslim, being married and being in unwedded relationship have huge differences. When he’s just your boyfriend, you can do whatever you want…nak tido umah member ke…nak mekap lapan inci ker….lantak kome lah. But when you’ve officially tied the bond with lafaz Ijab&Kabul, you are in different places all together. This is why marriage is regarded as a highly respected constitution in Islam.
To all my ladies friend, who’re getting married soon or not so soon, I wish you all thousand of happiness!!~. Enter this sacred relationship with both eyes open, and its the utmost importance to find that other half that can complete you……..I don’t mean it in terms of great looks, great jobs, or even someone who can provide you with tons of $$$ (to buy latest gorgeous Coach handbag, for instance….awww *bite nail* T_T) …but find someone that can become an Imam to you during solat, so when you pray behind him, listening to him citing phrases of al-fatihah~ you’ll feel a sudden sense of completion and protection, knowing that together you will guide each other to Him. Because that’s what I feel when I got married. Hmmm..kinda answered the question, didn’t I?